On the Eve

I can dance to anything!

Ayden is especially enjoying the holidays. Not only does he get to see his daddy more often, but he also has special visitors as well. Most recent were his Grancee and G-Daddy. He loved the attention they showered on him. He sat through an entire children's book with Grancee, which is is a whole book more than he will listen to with us. His grandparents walked him up and down the hallways, led by a single finger. G-Daddy tried to build things with Ayden's blocks, only for Ayden to knock them over before anything really got built. Grancee taught him how to use his new medical kit, complete with stethoscope and blood pressure cuff, and G-Daddy sang "Frosty the Snowman" and taught Ayden to drum the tomahawk chop.

I am learning to bowl;
I love to have a cheering section!

Diana Dowdle, Jude's mother, suggested that we take Ayden to Shadrack's Light Show. We all piled-- smooshed, suffocated, crammed-- into the SUV to trek across town to experience the Christmas lights as a family. We first stopped at Cracker Barrel, so Ayden could indulge in the kid's menu vegetable plate; yes, that's right: he eats mashed potatoes and applesauce ordered from a restaurant menu! After an early dinner, Ayden sat on G-Daddy's lap in the front seat, as we cruised through the light show set to Christmas music. Ayden was enthralled by the lights and clapped at the end of each song. Afterward Ayden rode the train and tried some of his daddy's fried Oreos. Speaking of our little man's sweet tooth... Ayden thinks going to Sweet CeCe's is now a real treat! We took him while his grandparents were here, so they could see his excitement over devouring at least six ounces of yogurt; he gets almost as tickled eating yogurt as he does learning to walk!

Of course, Ayden also got some fun things to play with, such as his Rockstar Mickey and Imaginarium music table. He honestly loved each present individually; he didn't seem to play favorites. And he enjoyed being part of our opening presents perhaps more than receiving his own.

Hmm.... What is this thing?

Ayden adores G-Daddy and Grancee, and I know he was sad to wake up from his nap this afternoon without his playmates. He has already had a merry holiday. We are a truly blessed family!

Some points of interest:

1. Ayden is now supposed to be eating 550 calories (of 800) by mouth. He probably eats more than that... He's gained two pounds since he started eating! (He's 26 pounds!) His favorite foods are yogurt (Greek, Yoplait... doesn't matter), pudding, sweet potatoes, chicken, carrots, butternut squash, and corn. He HATES peas! (I don't blame him. I'm not a fan either.) He is getting only one formula pump tube feed a day. He is still, however, receiving gravity tube feeds of liquid since he continues to refuse to drink anything. If he would drink enough liquid, we could probably get rid of the tube!

2. On Monday, I will be 28 weeks pregnant. I look (and feel) 35. This pregnancy has been far more difficult for me. Yes, yes, I have a toddler that contributes to things being harder, but this pregnancy is just physically more exhausting. Of course, the fact that I am older and out-of-shape might also have something to do with the hardship! My pregnancy with Ayden was fairly easy, and this one causes me to be pretty sick (even now!). A first pregnancy experience for me would be the fact that I have carpal tunnel; apparently, it goes away in nine out of ten women once the baby is born. I also am experiencing revenge of the reflux. It's a good thing we get a fabulous little one out of the deal... pregnancy is the pits!

Every pregnancy is different, and it has become apparent to me that one can even tell during pregnancy that the children are too. Ayden was a mover and a shaker when music was playing, and he also kicked and punched when his daddy was around. "Little B" (AKA "Nutter Butter") doesn't seem to be interested in music while in the womb; he is, however, very connected to my closest friends and family, especially Ayden. Whenever Ayden is sitting in front of me, Little B takes the opportunity to kick his brother in the back quite frequently. I'm not sure if this is a "hello" or "haha" or what. Ayden doesn't usually seem to notice... not yet anyway. Little B is also much more active overnight than Ayden was... We're going to need to get that turned around while in the womb, or Bryan and I are in for some long nights. Of course, we are probably in for some long nights anyway, especially since we have no prior experience with a newborn. Remember? Ayden was in the hospital as a newborn.

I received a phone call from my OB's office a couple of weeks ago. My precious OB, Dr. Growdon, is apparently not going to be working indefinitely. I am not sure of the reason, and I am lifting him up in my prayers. I am concerned for Dr. Growdon and also selfishly disappointed for myself. Bryan and I met with our new OB, Dr. Saig, last week. She is quite different from Dr. Growdon, but she seems nice and joyful. The OB appointment went smoothly, even quickly (amazing!), and the baby is growing appropriately. Little B's heartbeat continues to sound strong; we will continue checking on the mechanics of the heart with an ECHO in the new year.

3. As Bryan told you, we have been working to get our house in order to house our Little B. We decided to move Ayden to the guest room, and his room is now closer to completion. When I feel like it is "show ready," I'll post pictures. :) BLM's room, on the other hand, looks like a storage closet. My daddy and Bryan moved B's furniture in there, but it's not assembled or arranged. Then there's our study... why does it always seem like we decide to do something in the study at the same time that we are rearranging the rest of our lives?!?! I'm not a very patient person, so it's terribly frustrating to see our house in such disarray, but I know that we are all (it's been a family & friend effort!) giving our best to get things done as quickly as possible. I am enveloped by some truly amazing people!

4. Please pray for Paul and his family, as they spend the holidays in the hospital while he recovers from the Norwood procedure. You can read about his journey at http://paulsheart.doodlekit.com.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!